Casual sex women

Genuinely good sex is hard to come by, as are actually good, healthy relationships. We're big fans of having one without the other, as long as everyone involved is happy and safe and having a giant laugh. I cannot stand when people think the only environment in which you can have good sex is in a relationship. The best casual sex I ever had was with a guy I was relatively friendly with but not that close.

Some women consider themselves progressive, and claim that sexual liberty is a must for women. Yes, it is. Losing the commitment or investment of a man we already decided was good in some way, or even just good looking, can be devastating. Yes, there are women out there who use men for sex, and I am starting to consider the possibility that mostly, these types of women are oriented towards the clitoral orgasm and prefer to get off rather than connect and commit themselves deeply. To have anything other than a clitoral orgasm, such as a cervical orgasm, you have to be a lot softer, more relaxed, a lot more trusting, and emotionally open. That kind of orgasm in itself will demand some form of emotional connection with the man, which renders the woman terribly vulnerable to the man.

Getting late-night "whats up" texts and having no idea who they're from. Are you a ghost? Are you my mom's friend Janet?

To me, sex is like basketball: a pleasurable activity you can do with alone or with others, with varying degrees of formality. And pickup basketball can be quite invigorating. After four years with an exclusive, committed partner, they usually know at least four to six things that you reliably like doing. Casual sex , of course, can suffer from its newness or lack of intimacy on occasion—we all have lackluster one night stand stories.