Clue is on a mission to help you understand your body, periods, ovulation, and so much more. Start tracking today. Ejaculation is a powerful bodily experience that has long been associated with penises and male sexuality. But ejaculation from the vulva or vagina can also happen—before, during, after, or without orgasm.
Where does it comes from? Is it pee? And how might I make it happen for me? The first time Gilly, 41, squirted, it left her on a high. I took a photo of the wet patch so I could reassure myself that it really had happened. Tash, 26, was a bit more floored — and worried about the carpet. I mopped up the rug, then had a google.
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General consensus seems to be that squirting or gushing is the release of some fluid during or just before orgasm. However, not all women experience any sort of ejaculation of liquid at orgasm. Another study found that those who reported orgasming from inside the vagina ie, G-spot were more likely to report a spurt of fluid at the moment of orgasm. Similarly to the existence or non-existence of the G-spot , the chemical makeup of the liquid squirted, or female ejaculate which may or may not be something different , has long been the subject of debate.
When I finally let go and did what felt pleasurable is when it first happened. The intensity just kept increasing, and it kind of hit a plateau before I squirted. I tensed up which I would later find helps the process along quite a bit , then I found myself completely sated. There are of course general things that apply to everyone, like nerve endings and arousal -- but the 'how to' varies so much from person to person. In the interest of the greater good, Dr.